Crossbow, not sure why the hostility (or perhaps just mean-spirited levity) comes from but, to answer your questions:
It was more of the second, but probably a little too much of former misdirected your way. For that I apologize. I have known way too many GMs that it is amazing that they can play at all because they are so exclusive as to what they will tolerate in their game. But they have a core group of old friends that understands them and plays with them in spite or because of those attributes.
I am all about the social aspect of role-playing games, I prefer to be inclusive and I love to teach the games to people, and help them overcome negative aspects to their style.
Rules wise I am a purist, I have had problems with specific rules but I am willing accept them because I have seen enough times where a rule I dislike is either a misread on someone’s part, mine or a player, or there is another aspect of the rules that is check and balance and the system as a whole works or doesn’t.
All of this is not to excuse what I said before, and I appreciate that you didn’t blow me off as a flame but addressed the concerns. You even did so a lot more respectfully than I deserved, so kudos for that.
Have you ever had a game go entirely off the rails because part of your world, or a plot element therein, was not to the tastes of one of your players? I have. Thus the rating. I don't want anyone to get into a game where they're unprepared for what they might deal with.
Actually I have, most often with this system. It has helped me to talk it out with players and curb those aspects to my players’ sensibilities, that inclusive rather than exclusive thing again.
Anyway, I think I am going submit something for your game, just to show no hard feelings. Feel free to reject me with or without prejudice, but after your explanation and you backing off the soapbox I realize it might fun to try.