Of course, if you're doing Ashes, there's no rules against telling your spirit to beat the shit out of that annoying ork.
Anyway, all spirits have ranks in Unarmed Combat, so they can fight normally as part of a Combat service. If you want their melee attacks to be elemental, though, you'll need the Energy Aura power (available to Air, Fire and Water): their melee attacks will have a DV of (Magic + Strength), an AP of -(Magic) and may have an elemental type. Plus if someone hits them with a melee attack, they'll insta-deal (Magic x 2) damage with an AP of -(Magic) to the attacker, which cannot be avoided, only soaked.