I generally describe matrix actions that use attack as limit with words such as obvious, brutal, forceful, powerful, bully, intimidate, spectacular,....
...and matrix actions that use sleaze as limit with words such as trick, sleight, subtle, fool, deceive.....
For example:
When you use Brute Force you force the icon to accept your mark.
When you use Hacking on the Fly you trick the icon to accept your mark.
I try to make the rest of the fluff match the style of the persona.
If the persona is a Ninja then Hide might look like a smoke bomb, marks might look like shurikens, Data Spike might be a swing with a Ninjato etc.