So depending on the mage's tradition and/or the GM the spirit can have a back story or it cannot?
Essentially, yes.
Now, is that back story "True"... well no one knows
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Over the editions, Spirits have changed wildly... so it also depends on the edition - as its the edition that "warps" the Spirit World.
Case in point; From editions 1 - 3 Spirits and Elementals were two separate things, summoned by two different traditions, and behaved in two separate ways.
In late 3e and all of 4e, Universal Magical Theory became the "De-Facto" Theory of magic... And now elementals and spirits got blended into just "spirits".... and the way they are summoned and controlled changed radically...
5e still has UMT as the de-facto Theory, but in later supplements, they opened the door to questioning the UMT, and started to re-introduce some things from previous editions back into the "Spirit World'...
AS to 6e, I do not have the books yet so I can not comment on it's adoption of UMT as the universal theory or not yet. (But given from what I have heard, it sounds like UMT is here to stay, again)