Exactly what I was going for SSDR.
Human Looking = My Elf Ears are short & round & I'm not 6' 5"
Blandness = I have brown eyes, brown hair, average build, etc etc.
Not that he's not attractive & or charming. Just that he's not your Platinum haired, Body Builder, with a Mullet, & long Pointy ears, & Face Paint, or whatever else would be identifying.
He's not black or pale albino, he's a very light tan, he's short for an elf so average human height, maybe an inch or 2 above human average but not the full +.2 meters (6-7") that an elf would be.
He's the kind of guy that a cop gets a description from people like.......... Male, Brown Hair, Brown Eyes, Average Build, no Tatoos/Scars........ great that is 1/3 of the country, good luck IDing him.