Yeah, sorry about that. For some reason sometimes when you edit a post that has links in it, it will do that doubling thing with the http:// code.
Anyway, yeah, I agree about the griefers. That's one of the reason that Caine set up his own server. So we can handle people being an asshole in game. In fact, already ran into that once. While we were at Gen Con the game updated to a new Version number, but since Caine wasn't home, he couldn't update the server. And if you update your game to the newer version, you cant log into servers running an older version. Well, one of our tribe members didn't have auto updates on, so he was the only one able to log into our ARK server all week. And he ended up wrecking a bunch of stuff for another tribe, stealing some of their resources and blueprints, etc. Needless to say, they were quite unhappy and eventually left the server.
This guy has since been blacklisted from the server, because that's complete crap behavior.
Caine's putting in some general rules for the server, and "Don't be a dick" and "no greifing" and "No offline raiding" are included in those.
So... Maybe come check us out if you like? Smaller crowd of players, but should generally be fewer douchebags (ie., none).