Hey man, I know how you feel. I just printed out the matrix actions for my decker to make life easier. I also made a cheat sheet for myself and the players. It is by no means complete, so if people feel like there needs to be a few additions to it, let me know.
I'm putting it out there for all to use, cause I had to make it and I am sure other runners would want it for when those jobs go pear shaped.